20 Blog Posts on Rose-Colored Linds! What I’ve Learned So Far

blog2I am, at my core, a writer. Since I was a child, it has always come relatively easily, what with having a very vivid imagination and the ability to be infatuated with just about anyone (or anything). But like most creative endeavors, full-time adulting eventually took the fun out of it.

It’s been that way for about six years — that is, until the idea for Rose-Colored Linds came about. I truly don’t know what changed, but writing and documenting here for the past month-and-a-half has been really fun. Needless to say, I am looking forward to more.

To mark this milestone of 20 posts, I thought it fitting to share what I’ve learned so far:

1. The best ideas really do come in the shower, or while driving, or out for a walk. I’ve been making a concerted habit to go through my thoughts during such moments of pause. Sometimes it gets a just a little bit weird, but, hey, we’re all mad here, etc.

2. Research is more than a Google search. Listening to new music, going through your Twitter news feed, engaging in water cooler talk — that’s research, too. Writing is inherently a solo activity, but it instantly becomes a social engagement once published. So being somewhat in tune what’s stimulating others will assist in what you add to the discourse.

3. If you want to create content, don’t wait — start now. As in right now. If you think it’s all been done, think again. Sure, there’s a lot of content out there, but there’s always room for more, especially if it comes from a fresh perspective. The interwebs are deep and dark, but plenty of gems kick up to the surface. Let one of them be yours.

4. Visuals go a long way. Everyone has an imagination, but there’s something to be said for a photo or video making a wall of text more digestible. If a picture is worth a thousand words, you’ll probably only have to write 500 or so.

5. Be patient. Stick with your dream. Earlier this year, I had big plans for the patio garden outside my apartment — a hopeful little jungle oasis to be enjoyed during the heat of summer. I bought some seedlings, was gifted a couple tomato plants, and my faithful annual geranium started blooming. It took a while, and didn’t turn out exactly as I’d imagined, but I’ve got a garden that I’m really proud of. Things don’t happen overnight. They may not happen for weeks, or months, or even longer than that — but they will.

To wrap it up, I’ll leave you with this quote by inspirational speaker Sandra Turley: “Seek to be worth knowing rather than well known.”

Thanks for reading – see you in the next post!

20 Unconventional Blog Post Titles

Thought I’d have a little fun — stop me if you’ve heard these before:

1.  How to NOT Go Viral

2. Face It, We’re All Dying 

3. The Good Old Days Were Great for You, But Sucked For Your Parents

4. 20 Singers Who Do Not Use Autotune

5. How to Silent Fart Your Way Out of a Bad Date

6. 5 Exercises to Get a Flat Butt

7. 10 Reasons to Go Carnivorous

8. How to Stay Below the Poverty Line

9. Save on Dental Bills by Avoiding Responsibility Altogether

10. How to Side-Eye Your Way to the Top

11. Charming Incompetence = Basically a Princess 

12. How to Talk Yourself Down from a Double-Shot Espresso High

13. 8 Reasons to Marry Your Fiance and Not Run Off With the Horse

14. Chocolate is a Vegetable, Wine is a Fruit

15. 20 Ways to Emo Like It’s 1994

16. Celebs: Like Hell They’re Just Like Us

17. A Day in the Life of a Parched InstaThot 

18. You’re Not Special, Just Loud and Annoying 

19. How to Successfully Daydream Yourself Out of a Job 

20. Throat Punching: The New Pinky Swear 

Would you write about any of these? (I’m sure someone already has…)

Happy Friday!

Carrie Bradshaw on Social Media

I want to apologize in advance because most every female blogger writes about Carrie Bradshaw, but you have to understand: this character has inspired some very strong feelings among writers. Like, strong economic, social, and political feelings. She’s ridiculous. She’s fictional. And that’s why, over 13 years after Sex & the City‘s season finale, a lot of people are still talking about her.

This begs the question — would Carrie Bradshaw actually have made it as a writer in today’s digital world?

I think so. Here’s why:

1. Sex sells and always will. I don’t know how many more songs about putting one’s panties to the side or if the vagina cleavage trend will continue, but this is the world we currently live in. Opening it up for discussion and debate to a wide audience, however, still takes skill and personality. Achieving Loveline, Savage Love, or Sex with Emily status might take more work if Carrie Bradshaw was just starting out — but sex- and relationship-talk definitely speaks to people, and it’s not going anywhere.

2. Carrie networked ALL the time. And I mean all the time. Scoping out a new art gallery, wine bar or restaurant is so much more than hanging out with your friends — it’s an opportunity. You never know who you could meet in line for the valet. If you really think about it, the only difference between a night out and networking is a business card.

3. She loved fashion because she truly, unashamedly loved it, not because it was trendy. Fashion was Carrie’s passion: more than writing, more than food (but never more than her friends). She veered towards vintage styles, visited second-hand shops, and rocked questionable styles — because fashion was her life. The designer clothes, shoes, and accessories she purchased were as much of an extension of her as any other part of her body. And sure, she may have cringed at any past fashion sense, but she never regretted it. That type of authenticity and energy doesn’t go without notice.

4. Carrie wrote authentically, introspectively and with curiosity. From one night stands to challenging sexuality (not her best moment), to dealing with fetishes and cheating (also not her best moment), Carrie wrote with a vulnerability that made her come off as a real person. She remained true to herself, even if that meant she was unlikable.

So where would Carrie Bradshaw find her greatest reach if she was on social media today?

While YouTube seems to be the go-to platform, I personally think Instagram would garner the biggest interest, at least at first. All she would need would be the camera on a smartphone and literally the designer clothes on her back. Carrie barely used email, so why not go the way of least investment? #shoppingismycardio

The next step would probably be a blog, and perhaps contributing her views of love and sex to e-zines such as xoJane, Ravishly, The Gloss and others, so as to boost interest and traffic flow back to her online portfolio. Of course this would mean she would need to dip her toes into the SEO pool, which, for someone who was afraid of using email or a cell phone, would not be an easy task. It’s not enough to write what you’re passionate about (although it really helps) — and that’s where learning SEO would really help. And then there’s always the slightly formidable but necessary process of personal branding, (and so on and so forth)….

Strategy, research, and planning, with trial and error being part of the fun. Just like print media when you think about it, only at a quicker publishing speed. I can’t help but wonder if Carrie would make it after all?